Discover your rhythm in every season of life
Meet Norman & Cynda
A husband-and-wife coaching team helping leaders grow spiritually, relationally, and practically—so they can flourish in every season of life and leadership.
Why Leaders Work With Us
Leadership can be deeply rewarding—but it can also be lonely. Many leaders carry significant responsibility while having very few places where they can process decisions, challenges, and personal growth with honesty and wisdom.
Norman and Cynda Behymer create a trusted space for leaders to pause, reflect, and grow—personally, spiritually, and relationally.
Together, they bring decades of leadership experience, having walked through the real pressures of ministry, leadership, family life, and personal seasons of change. Their coaching is grounded not only in knowledge, but in lived experience, wisdom, and a deep commitment to helping leaders flourish.
Leaders work with Norman and Cynda because they value:
Wisdom from Experience
With decades of combined ministry and leadership experience, Norman and Cynda understand the realities leaders face. Their guidance is shaped with a heart of serving, mentoring, and walking alongside others in leadership.
A Trusted and Confidential Space
Leaders often lack a place where they can speak openly. Norman and Cynda provide a safe and confidential environment where leaders can process decisions, challenges, and calling with honesty and clarity.
Whole-Life Leadership
Healthy leadership begins with a healthy life. Their coaching focuses on the spiritual, emotional, relational, and practical aspects of leadership—strengthening both the leader and the relationships that support them.
A Heart for the Next Generation
Norman and Cynda are passionate about helping leaders multiply their impact by raising up the next generation. Their desire is not just to help leaders succeed, but to see them build a legacy that continues far beyond themselves.
Who We Coach
Pastors & Ministry Leaders
Lead with wisdom, clarity, and spiritual health.
Executive Leaders & Business Owners
Navigate pressure, decisions, and leadership with confidence.
Women in Leadership
A sacred space to grow, process, and flourish.
Leadership Couples
Strengthen your relationship while strengthening your calling.
Grow and Flourish
The Building Season: A Summer Growth Intensive
A 3-Month Leadership & Business Experience
There comes a point where clarity is no longer the goal…
Building is.
This 3-month Summer Intensive is designed for those who are ready to move from vision into action—bringing structure, focus, and momentum to what you’re called to build.
Over the course of June–August, you’ll be guided through a process inspired by the book of Nehemiah—focusing on vision, strategy, resistance, leadership, and completion.
This is not just about ideas.
This is about movement.
Inside this experience, you’ll receive:
• 6 live Zoom sessions (2x/month) - June 9th & 23rd; July 7th & 21st; August 4th & 18th
• Coaching, teaching, and live Q&A
• Accountability partner (AP) support between sessions
• A guided workbook to walk through your building process
• An in-person collaboration session in New Port Richey, Florida
• A supportive, focused community of leaders and builders
This space is designed to be creative, activating, and intentional—helping you move from dreaming to doing in a way that is both practical and meaningful.
Led by Norman & Cynda Harris
(Executive Coach for Leadership and Life & Soul Coach)
Investment: $450
After registering:
You will receive a welcome email with your pre-intensive questionnaire and next steps within 24 hours!
It all begins with a YES. Maybe you want to launch a business or make a difference in the world. Maybe you want to turn a hobby into something more. Or maybe you have a creative project to share with the world. Whatever it is, the way you tell and share your passion, talents, and story can make all the difference in this world.
Contact me at hello@growandflourish.com for payment options.
An 8-Week Personalized Coaching & Mentorship Experience
The Private Life Coach Certification is a personalized experience designed for women and men who desire depth, clarity, and confidence as they step into coaching, leadership, and purposeful service.
This program carries the same foundation and certification as our in-person group training, but is delivered in a highly personalized format that combines certification training, individualized coaching, and extended mentorship—allowing space for growth that is both practical and deeply formative.
Over the course of 8 weeks, we meet 2 hours per week via Zoom, creating a steady, supportive rhythm that blends teaching, personalized coaching, reflection, and real-life application. Each session is shaped around your unique season, learning style, and goals—ensuring you’re not only learning coaching tools, but also being coached as you grow.
If we complete the core certification material before the full 8 weeks, the remaining time is intentionally reserved for 1:1 personalized coaching and mentoring, supporting you as you integrate what you’ve learned, practice coaching skills, and step forward with clarity and confidence.
Throughout the entire 8 weeks, you’ll receive extended mentorship and personalized coaching, including space for:
Individual coaching tailored to your life, leadership, and calling
Coaching feedback and skill development
Real-time application and practice
Discernment, prayer, and spiritual grounding
Identity and leadership formation
Seasons is not just a book about change.
It is a story of living it.
And an invitation to join a movement of women learning to live in rhythm instead of reaction.
Before it was ever written on paper, it was written in soil.
As a little girl on her grandparents’ farm in southwestern Oklahoma, Cynda learned that nothing grows by accident. The soil must be turned. Seeds must be planted. Waiting is required. Storms will come - some unexpected. Weeds must be removed and Harvest is never rushed.
Long before she understood leadership, calling, or loss, she understood seasons.
She lived them and then walked through them with her clients.
From a completely lit-up house filled with four children to the quiet transition of becoming an empty nester.
From small beginnings of church planting to serving on staff at a mega-church.
From leadership roles in the Worship Arts/Production ministires to stepping out to build her own leadership and life coaching work with women.
She shares openly about the Winter seasons — when God brought unexpected isolation and stillness, including a brain tumor diagnosis that forced her to slow down and discover the sacred rhythm of ‘being’ rather than doing. Seasons that felt buried… but were actually being prepared.
She writes about Spring — the excitement of new beginnings, launching a non-profit women’s organization, expanding ministries and business, and saying yes to growth that felt both thrilling and stretching uncomfortably.
She brings you into Summer — the fast pace, the fruitfulness, the stretch of responsibility, the rhythms that feel like you can hardly keep up — and what it means to flourish without burning out and still be able to be present.
And she gently walks you through Fall — the beauty and ache of release. Letting go personally, emotionally, even relationally. Most tenderly, she writes from the sacred ground of grief after the sudden and unexpected passing of her husband of 43 years — learning that even loss prepares the soul for what comes next by the lessons you learn from it.
At the heart of Seasons are four pillars that mirror both Scripture and nature:
Winter — Digging & Preparation
Spring — Planting & New Beginnings
Summer — Growing & Expanding
Fall — Releasing & Realignment
Each chapter includes stories and lessons, guided self-reflection questions, and journal prompts designed to help you pause and listen. You won’t just read about the seasons — you’ll learn how to identify which part of the process you are currently in and how to navigate it with clarity, courage, and peace.
Because sometimes you are not just “in Spring.”
You may be in early planting.
Or deep root growth.
Or pruning.
Or harvest.
And knowing the difference changes everything.
This book will help you:
Recognize the season your soul is in
Understand why no season is wasted — even the painful or hidden ones
Discern what God may be cultivating beneath the surface
Move forward with confidence instead of confusion
Seasons is more than pages bound together.
It is a call to return to God’s pace.
To trust His process.
To live awake to what He is doing in your life right now.
✨ This is a pre-order invitation.
When you pre-order, you are not just purchasing a book — you are stepping into a growing circle of women choosing intentional growth, spiritual depth, and courageous living. You are saying yes to becoming a woman who understands her season and moves with it instead of resisting it.
A signed copy of this book will be mailed to the shipping address you provide once released! (Spring, 2026)
Thank you for supporting this message, this movement, and this journey. I am so honored to walk it with you! Let’s start growing together….
Cynda
Ready to grow as a leader and in life?
We would be honored to walk alongside you in your leadership journey.